Tuesday, March 17, 2009

How to be helpful?


Being nice and helpful may get you good friends and a happy life. Some people don't know it, but the nicer you are, the happier you will be in future.Say I love you to the people you love too.


folw this step to be helpful person in your life....


Smile! Now be totally honest: Do you prefer being around someone that seems too sad or utterly serious, or hanging around somebody that smiles and seems to always be having fun? Yep, We've got it! A friendly smile will always brighten up anyone's day. Being in a good mood makes anyone feel more comfortable to approach you.


Offer to help anyway. Are there any friends or a siblings needing any help at all? Why not help them out!? Help somebody study for a test, or help your mom clean the house. There is no problem about helping out someone in need, because soon or later, they will probably (but not necessarily) help you in something, too.


Say positive things to people. Encouraging people to do what they like, or saying positive things to make people feel better after any bad situation will sure make you someone unforgettable. When you feel sad about anything in your life, wouldn't you love that someone could appear only to say a friendly word to make you smile? Well, if you are that person, everyone will sure love you forever and you will feel great.


Don't criticize. Encourage! As previously said, people want someone that say positive things, not that criticize every move they do. Of course you have the right to give your opinions, but doing it in a rude way won't help anyway.


Be receptive and accept all people. No matter how someone else looks or dresses, they deserve a chance. Why not to go up to someone new, smile and let them know if they need something, you will be there

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Think before doing anything. Before doing something, stop and think well about the situation. It's always good not to precipitate things or say stuff without thinking, or someone can get hurt.

Always do what you think is right, and remember that the best thing to do is that which will be fair for everyone.

Also do not be very rude or mean to anybody that you have not met. Reading the Bible can also help your spirit which can eventually help you to be a nicer person. Also think for example: If someone does not have an egg wrap and you have two be nice and give them one. Maybe one day when you have no food someone else just might give you some food

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

do it evry day?


Tell yourself that you are smart, you are cool, you are strong, you are good, and whatever else you want to be. Say it out loud, in the morning - hidden in the noise of the shower, if need be, but say it. Then, practice these attributes. Be smart by (say) solving a crossword puzzle. Be cool by making your own fashion statement. Be strong by doing something you said to yourself you were going to do. Be good by doing a good deed. And every time you do it, remind yourself that you have, in fact, done it.

Sunday, March 2, 2008

Why Think Positively?


All of our feelings, beliefs and knowledge are based on our internal thoughts, both conscious and subconscious. We are in control, whether we know it or not.
Aim high and do your best

We can be positive or negative, enthusiastic or dull, active or passive. The biggest difference between people is their attitudes. For some, learning is enjoyable and exciting. For others, learning is a drudgery. For many, learning is just okay, something required on the road to a job. "Most folks are about as happy as theymake up their minds to be." Abraham Lincoln Our present attitudes are habits, built from the feedback of parents, friends, society and self, that form our self-image and our world-image. These attitudes are maintained by the inner conversations we constantly have with ourselves, both consciously and subconsciously. The first step in changing our attitudes is to change our inner conversations.

how to be successful?

Is it not what we all are dreaming of? Being a Success! We want to be successful in school, in our jobs, in our relationships. In fact, we dream about being successful in everything. But what a challenge this is! Most of the people believe that they just can't achieve great success because they don't have what it takes, or because they're not educated enough! They complain that luck is never on their side or that they weren't born to be successful, or even that they are too poor to ever even think about being something else! You know what? You don't need luck or any diploma to accomplish the success you deserve. You just need faith. Faith that you will indeed be successful, faith that you have all that it takes to make it to the top! You have to BELIEVE that YOU ARE the most successful person you ever met. If you don't believe in yourself, who on earth do you think will? The most successful persons in the world (businessmen (women), signers, physicians, etc.) all have that point in common: They all believed firmly that they were going to be exactly what they expected to be. They never doubted themselves, they had faith in their potentials and they were absolutely convinced that they would make it to the top! They never accepted a No for an answer. Nothing as ever stopped them, slowed down maybe, but never stopped!